One bride has just taken bridezilla to another level. In an email she told her bridesmaid she needs to dye her red hair brunette before her big day. The bridesmaid posted on Reddit asking for advice and this has gone viral.
The bride wrote the following in an email sent
You’ll need to dye your hair for the day, I’ll take you to my hairdresser and cover the cost 🙂
According to the the Reddit user this had not previously been mentioned to her.
I’m a natural ginger, so it’s not like I have an outrageous hair colour, although (the bride) and her other bridesmaids are all brunettes.
When the poster let the bride know that she would not be comfortable with changing her hair colour the bride then went on to tell her that her red hair would “clash with the wedding colours and that
Brides get a veto over pretty much every aspect of her bridesmaids’ appearances use this link. Your hair is quite attention-grabbing and would take away from the cohesiveness of the group.
The bridesmaid asked the Reddit forum for advice
Am I being reasonable here? I’ve never been involved in a wedding before so I’m not quite sure what’s expected of me. I’ve gotten some messages from the other bridesmaids who are telling me I should just do it.
The response from the Reddit forum has been generally supportive of the poster not dying her hair.
You are not being unreasonable at all! I’m planning my wedding now, and I’d never ask bridesmaids to dye their hair!
She’s being ridiculous. Tell her you’d love to be a bridesmaid, but you won’t dye your hair. And if she insists on the hair, you should decline to be a bridesmaid.
The actual reason she was asked to dye her hair turns out is for a whole different reason. The bridesmaid later posted an update where she explained how she found out
[the groom] has a redhead fetish.
Since finding this out the bridesmaid has since let the bride know that she will no longer be a bridesmaid
I emailed (the bride) to tell her I’m no longer able to be a bridesmaid. I will probably not be going to the wedding at all. The whole situation is just too weird and uncomfortable
Would you change your appearance if asked?